I have no intention of seeking the love o a woman, right now. Yet I lurk and wonder about how difficult it will be to find someone.
So far my experiences have been not encouraging in the least.
I suppose my profile is not attractive! Maybe I am too picky. Whatever the truth, it makes me feel worse about myself. And just this idea of treating people like listings on amazon is demeaning.
What do women look for? I wonder now more than ever. I thought I knew something about it, now I dont.
What am I looking for? Now that may be the better question to seek an answer to .
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The meaning of the “second chance” I seek has been changed a lot. I started writing this in the hope of saving my marriage. But as time showed me , that was futile and misguided. Now I seek a second chance to be father to my six year old boy. He will no longer live with me starting aug2018. I hope to use this blog to allow him an insight into his father. I would want him to read this when he is older.
My original synopsis
A man in crisis. I am a 30 -something man. My 10 year marriage shattering in front of my eyes. I have decided that writing helps. I am hoping to heal from whats coming, but before that I have to deal with it. Experience the pain, I know I will feel, when my wife walks out the door.
I have a little boy who I don't want to lose. And I am scared. Of restarting my life from scratch. I am hoping to find kindred spirits on the blog, who are going through or have gone through what I am experiencing.
But I have hope, and I have faith. To some degree, I hope to reconcile my marriage.
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A second chance? 
I know lots of people who have had success with online dating. I know it’s a cliche but I found someone when I wasn’t looking, it just happened to be the right time and place. We did meet on the internet but through a mutual interest forum and built up the friendship first.
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Online dating is difficult…lots of crap outta there.
What women look for? Mmm, safety, to know exactly what her responsibilities are, to feel peace, freedom to decide and be alone sometimes, communication and humor on the same level, sex should be good or if no sex – then again…safety from all sides: including house, money etc.
mmm, hope it’s enough for now
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thanks…
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