June 9 , 2019 - I will see you tomorrow for the first time in 10 months. My life has been filled with ever increasing anxiety since you left. I have missed you every single day, and yet I have tried to move forward as best as I could. I had dreams of being… Continue reading My dear son – A reunion
It has begun. I have signed up for the Santa Cruz Half Ironman. This was the dream I had about two years ago. It was impossible then, but now its daunting but within reach. I hit a roadblock in my recovery from my divorce. My son left for India with my ex on Aug 14,… Continue reading Dreams clad in iron . Journey to Ironman
Sarah and I drove down to the pinnacles and did a medium length Hike. It involved going through a cave. Exceeded all expectations. I made a video of the hike https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y71T1VJshec&index=1&list=PLLWNDKx3gDrz4lUZSTLACAPe9O6Om8XhX The scenery was incredible. And the park is pretty accessible from south San Jose!
Sep23 , 2018 was the date of my second olympic distance triathlon. 1.5Km Swim , 40 Km Cycle , 10Km Run. I managed to finish in 3 Hours and 15 mins. Its still a slow time placing me in the bottom quarter of the field. And close to one of the slowest in my age… Continue reading Santa Cruz Triathlon
Aug 14, 2018. You are queuing up at San Francisco international airport's security line, waiting to board your flight to Bangalore. And it will be 10-11 months before I see you again. Our last weekend was full of joy. It will go a long way to assuage my pain and guilt. People reached out to… Continue reading My dear son- till next time
Dec 2016 - I was fat. 34 years old, 5'4" and 180+ lbs. I got that way because I loved the comfort food brought me. I thought I was already burning through all my positive energy just supporting my family, and I told myself that I deserved it. I deserved the unhealthy snacks, the couch potato… Continue reading Why I tri.
I did the Sandman only because Active.com did a discount attached to my Santa Cruz Triathlon registration. The event was relaxed and smaller distance than a full olympic. The catch was that the run was on a beach. I did the event in good spirit and had a good time along the way. Sarah's family… Continue reading The Sandman Triathlon
On Aug 14 2018, Andrew , my 6 year old boy will leave for India with my ex-wife. The days leading upto it and the months after will be the hardest things in the aftermath of the breakup of the marriage. I have come to terms with the infidelities, the break of faith, and the… Continue reading Filling the void
Its been over a year since you met Sarah's fur baby, Bentley. And I know you have wanted a pet for a while. Besides, Bentley needs some company too. So we Sarah and I decided to add a new member to our family. I present to you Biscuit. He was 6 weeks old when we… Continue reading My Dear Son – little Biscuit